Wednesday, November 28, 2007

Laina goes to LA

Laina had her first Thanksgiving outside the womb this year. We left Denver in a light snowstorm on Wednesday and got to sit in some good old 405 traffic on the way to my parents house in Santa Clarita. Laina finally got to meet her cousins Kylie, Conner, and Kaity, her Aunt Erin and Uncle Jeff, and Aly and J.T. who are somehow related to her but its too hard to figure out the terms...

She also got to have some hang-time with her grandparents. We had a good time with all the kids, although Laina was a little overwhelmed at first. Jenna got sick in the middle of the night Thursday night, but was feeling better by Saturday.

We headed up to Palmdale Friday afternoon to the Ali household where Laina got to meet little yappy dogs for the first time... she thought they were funny. Grandma and Grandpa Ali got to show her some new things and get some good laughs out of her, and were proud to show off their grandbaby at church on Sunday.


We flew back Monday afternoon, stopping off at In 'N Out at LAX, where Laina enjoyed her first fast-food water, and had her back in her bed by around 8:00.

Here's some pics:

Laina with her three loving cousins, Kylie, Kaity, and Conner


Kaity declared Laina "her best friend" before we came out... apparently they're still good

The whole clan holding smiles for an unnaturally long time for multiple photographers (pictured: Jay's parents, brother's family, cousin Aly, and Erin's brother J.T.)

Jenna giving a horsie ride to Kylie



Playing the baby grand piano (its for babies, right?)

Jenna's side (minus her brother Jesse, who's in Japan) Laina has freakish gorilla-arms in this picture... and Larry was looking at the other camera... and Laina was looking at the dog probably


Grandpa Ali showing Laina how to bang together metal measuring cups... she loved it


Chillin' with Grandma Ali

Polishing off some delicious In 'N Out tap water



Monday, November 19, 2007

Research

My first onslaught of research was mostly yielding lots of info linking thimerosal with autism and other diseases. There is a lot of stuff claiming thimerosal and the MMR vaccine contribute to the growing population of autistic children. Today I did some research on the CDC website and others. Here is a link to the studies that have been done regarding the subject:

http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/autism/documents/vaccine_studies.pdf

The chart may be a bit out of date as I found elsewhere the results of the study at the top of the second page (at least it sounded like the same study). Those also showed no relationship between thimerosal and neurological developmental disorders. What also may be out of date is a lot of the info I found that does speculate the link between autism and vaccines. Most of that info said there have been no studies on the matter. Clearly there have been, and it looks like they began back in Nov 2002 (which granted, isn't that long ago).

So maybe all my concern and worry is unmerited. I would still rather take things cautiously. There are still the 2 books that I am anxiously awaiting. I have requested them at the library and am in 3rd and 5th waiting place for them. Here are links to the books on Amazon:


What Your Doctor May Not Tell You About Children's Vaccinations

The Vaccine Book: Making the Right Decision for Your Child


The first one is by Dr Stephanie Cave who is a family practitioner who specializes in children with autism. The second book is by Dr Sears who is a well-known pediatrician. Neither one are very expensive, but I'd like to check them out from the library first to see if they are worth purchasing. So hopefully my number will come up quickly on them so I can get on with my research.

Friday, November 16, 2007

to Vaccinate or not to Vaccinate...that is the Question

Laina is supposed to go in for her flu booster shot on Tuesday. She got the first one at her 6 month check up. Of course, after getting the shot, I did some research into it and it turns out there are some flu shots that contain mercury (in thimerosal, a preservative) and some don't. We had to go back to the doctor because I was worried about some eye redness that Laina had, so while there I asked about their flu shots. The doctor explained very nicely that yes, theirs does contain thimerosal, but that it's perfectly safe, she gave it to her own kid, blah blah blah.

This deeply troubles me. Of course the more research I do the more troubled I become. I know, you have to take everything you read online with a grain of salt, but it really seems there could be some serious repercussions of injecting babies with mercury. One interesting thing is that vaccine manufacturers have mostly voluntarily stopped using thimerosal, and only one or two brands still put it in their flu shots. It sounds like most of the other vaccinations for other diseases don't have it either, but I need to do a bit more research to make certain. I am going to check out a few highly recommended books from the library.

There are other issues I'm discovering with the other vaccines, but I don't feel as well-read on those so that post will have to wait until another time. Also Jay and I have been interested in "epi-genetics" which he could elaborate on much more eloquently than I could. But in a nut-shell, some people may be pre-disposed to certain diseases, and the things we do or eat or get injected with may be triggers.

So, some random chunks of food for thought which I've been thinking a lot about (not all related to the flu shot, but all shots in general):

- Why do 99% of pediatricians recommend all vaccines and the timeline suggested by the American Association of Pediatricians, when there is mounting evidence (or at least suggestive studies) that this may not be in the best interest of the child, and may have serious side effects.

- Why is is so hard to find a pediatrician who will work with the parents on possibly not getting some shots and delaying others? They look at you like you're crazy if you even bring it up.

- Don't most pediatricians have their own children, and wouldn't they be reading up on this info as much as possible? Are they just so ingrained with whatever they were taught in medical school, which may well be outdated? Or is all this "alternative" info really just junk, internet fodder, for hungry conspiracy theorists?

- Is there some sort of conspiracy between drug manufacturers and the FDA? My brother was really trying to convince me of this a few years ago and I pretty much laughed in his face, but now I'm starting to see his point...

- Why have most (but not all) drug manufacturers voluntarily removed thimerosal from their vaccines? My guess - they know something's wrong with it. Yet why hasn't the FDA mandated that it be removed? And why, oh why, does my pediatrician's office have to use the one with thimerosal, when there are others without it?

- I have decided NOT to get Laina's booster flu shot. I have to call the office today and let them know. I am not looking forward to that call.

- What to do about the rest of her vaccinations? The stuff I'm reading is pretty scary, possibly linking vaccinations to autism, Alzheimer's, and other auto-immune disorders. It sounds like there are reasonable ideas out there on delaying shots and spreading them out over more visits, instead of inundating kids with so many shots at one time (to give the body time to "recover" from each one individually). How do I bring this up to my pediatrician, and what do I do if they won't be flexible?

- Some veterinarians are even starting to re-think the numerous vaccinations our animals get. When I worked for Healthy Pet magazine I remember having articles about this very thing - inundating pets with so many vaccines and how it might be harmful. My friend's horse vet doesn't give too many shots at one time because there might be harmful side effects. Why are the doctors of our animals more concerned about this than the doctors of our children?

- Why did I even get myself into this? It would be so much easier to just be ignorant and mindlessly do what the "people who know best" say we should do.

- I'm not saying that vaccines are horrible or that I don't want Laina to get them. I just want to know that they're safe and do everything possible to ensure that the manner in which she gets them is safe.

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Laina in Action

It just dawned on us that we should probably post some videos of Laina for all her fans on the west coast...

Here's her impression of Michigan J. Frog (make sure your speakers are on)...




And here she is reading her favorite book (not quite as entertaining)...


Enjoy!